33 Golf Etiquette Mistakes Beginners Should Avoid
Golf etiquette is at the heart of what makes the game so special. Often called a gentleman’s game, golf is about showing respect—to your fellow players, the course, and the traditions that make every round enjoyable. In my experience as a golf writer and casual player in the U.S., beginners tend to focus so much on their swing that they overlook the basics of good behavior. And that’s understandable golf etiquette isn’t always taught, but it can make or break your experience.
As PGA professional Jason Crawford said in a Business Insider feature:
“Good etiquette makes the experience better for everyone on the course.”
This guide highlights 33 of the most common golf etiquette mistakes I see among beginners—and, more importantly, how to avoid them easily. Whether playing a local public course or a prestigious private club, these tips will help you feel confident, fit in, and enjoy the game even more.
Why Golf Etiquette Matters
- Respect for the game: Golf has centuries of tradition. Etiquette preserves its integrity.
- Smooth play: The following etiquette ensures faster, more enjoyable rounds.
- Courtesy for others: Small actions can significantly improve the experience for everyone on the course.
1️⃣ Arriving Late or Unprepared
Showing up late for your tee time is one of the quickest ways to get on the wrong side of your group. U.S. courses run on tight schedules, and lateness causes backups. I always aim to arrive 20–30 minutes early, giving time to check in, warm up, and review local rules. Set a phone reminder the day before so you’re packed and ready. Pro tip: use extra time to visit the practice green; it helps settle first-tee nerves!
2️⃣ Ignoring the Dress Code
Golf attire may seem formal, but it’s about respect. Most U.S. courses expect collared shirts, tailored shorts or slacks, and golf shoes—no jeans, tank tops, or gym shorts. Golf pro-Erika Larkin often reminds beginners: “The dress code is part of golf’s tradition, not a fashion rule.” Before your round, check the course’s website for dress guidelines. At Stafford Golf Store, you can easily find affordable, beginner-friendly gear that meets most codes.
3️⃣ Failing to Yell "Fore!"
When your shot heads toward another player, shouting “Fore!” is essential. It’s not just etiquette—it’s about safety. I’ve seen beginners hesitate out of embarrassment, but a loud warning can prevent injuries. Make it a habit: call out immediately when your ball veers toward others.
Coaches often say: “There’s no shame in yelling ‘Fore!’ — there’s shame in staying silent.”
4️⃣ Not Practicing "Ready Golf"
The pace of play matters. “Ready golf” means playing when you’re prepared rather than waiting for honors, especially in casual rounds. It can save 20–30 minutes per round. Plan your shot while walking, keep your club-ready, and play safely when it’s your turn. U.S. courses and the USGA promote ready golf to keep groups moving smoothly.
5️⃣ Walking Into Someone's Swing or Putting Line
Stepping into a player’s swing path or putting Line is distracting and inconsiderate. Even your shadow across their Line can affect their focus. Stay off the putting Line and out of view during swings. Stand well behind the ball or off to the side when in doubt. Watch where the pros stand—it’s a good habit to copy!
6️⃣ Dragging Feet Near Tee or Green
Dragging your feet scuffs delicate turf, especially on greens, causing damage and ruining putting surfaces. U.S. superintendents often cite this as a common issue with newer golfers. Always lift your feet fully as you walk, especially near the hole. If you make a mark, smooth it out gently with your foot or repair tool.
7️⃣ Leaving Bags or Carts in the Wrong Spots
When bags or carts block the green exit or another player’s Path, play is delayed. Before putting out, place your bag or park your cart toward the next tee’s side. This small act keeps the pace of play smooth and shows you’re thinking ahead—something other players always appreciate.
8️⃣ Failing to Repair Pitch Marks ("Repair One, Fix Four")
A single unrepaired ball mark can damage a green for days. The saying goes: repair your pitch mark, fix four more. Carry a repair tool (or tee in a pinch) and gently push the edges inward, but don’t lift the soil. Taking 10 seconds to do this keeps greens true for everyone.
9️⃣ Not Raking Bunkers
It’s poor form to leave a bunker with footprints and divots. Always rake the area you played from, your exit path, and any marks you made. Courses often post where to leave the rake—usually outside the bunker, parallel to play. Think: “Leave it better than you found it.”
🔟 Ignoring Divot Repair or Using Wrong Technique
Fairways suffer when players don’t replace or fill divots. If your course supplies seed mix, use it to level the spot. If not, replace the chunk of grass and step it down firmly. It’s quick, easy, and shows you respect the course.
1️⃣1️⃣ Misusing Range Balls on the Course
Range balls are for practice facilities—not the course. They don’t perform like standard balls, and using them can violate course policies. Bring a few lower-cost balls for tricky holes if you’re worried about losing them. Most U.S. golf shops (like Stafford Golf Store) offer value packs perfect for beginners.
1️⃣2️⃣ Not Marking Your Ball Distinctly
Many beginners forget to mark their ball, leading to confusion or penalties when they play the wrong one. The USGA requires each player’s ball to be easily identifiable. Adding dots, initials, or lines with a marker makes a huge difference. It avoids mix-ups on the fairway and the embarrassment of hitting someone else’s ball. Tip: Mark your ball on the first tee before your round starts. Coaches often say: “If you can’t recognize your ball at a glance, you’re risking strokes.”
1️⃣3️⃣ Searching Too Long for Lost Balls (Limit 3 Minutes)
It’s natural to want to find a lost ball, but spending too long looking slows down play. The USGA rule is clear: 3 minutes max. Beyond that, declare it lost and take the appropriate drop or penalty. Watch where your ball lands carefully, and ask your group to help spot it. If in doubt, play a provisional to keep pace moving. Most courses appreciate players who respect this rule—it keeps everyone happy.
1️⃣4️⃣ Not Playing Provisional Balls When Needed
If your shot might be lost or out of bounds, not hitting a provisional wastes time and frustrates your group. You avoid the long walk back by immediately playing a provisional and keeping things flowing. Remember to announce clearly that it’s provisional: “I’m hitting a provisional ball.” This avoids confusion about which ball is in play. A good habit: any time you’re unsure where the ball ended up, hit a provisional. No harm was done, and it was only smoother play.
1️⃣5️⃣ Distracting Noise—Phones, Music, Swinging Clubs
Noise on the course is one of the top complaints among experienced players. Whether it’s a ringing phone, loud music, or fidgeting with clubs, it distracts and disrupts focus. The best approach? Keep phones silent, ask your group before playing music, and stay still during others’ shots. Golf is about concentration for you and everyone else. As one pro put it: “Good golf manners are mostly about knowing when to be quiet.” Respect that, and you’ll always be welcome in any group.
1️⃣6️⃣ Using Carts Unsafely Feet Dangling or Off Path
Golf carts are fun, but they must be used with care. Driving off designated paths or dangling your feet while moving can be dangerous and damage the course, especially near greens and tees. U.S. courses have clear cart rules that follow them. Tip: Always keep hands and feet inside, stick to paths when required, and park away from the green’s edge. Clever cart use keeps you safe and protects the course for everyone.
1️⃣7️⃣ Playing When Players Ahead Are in Range
One of the most dangerous mistakes in golf is playing a shot before the group ahead is safely out of range. Even if you think you won’t reach them, accidents happen. Tip: Watch until the fairway is clear before you hit. Coaches say: “No shot is worth risking someone’s safety.” Be patient—waiting a minute is better than regretting a rushed shot.
1️⃣8️⃣ Not Letting Faster Groups Throug
Let faster groups play through if your group is slower, whether because you’re learning or searching for balls. This keeps the pace fair for everyone and is standard etiquette at U.S. courses. Tip: Look for natural pauses, like after putting out on a hole, to wave them up. You’ll earn respect and won’t feel rushed when it’s your turn.
1️⃣9️⃣ Walking Too Slowly Lagging Pace
Golf isn’t a race, but walking too slowly between shots can annoy fellow players and groups behind you. Tip: Walk briskly, especially after tee shots, and plan your next move as you approach your ball. This helps your group maintain a steady pace and shows you’re mindful of others’ time. Remember: a good pace means less waiting for everyone!
2️⃣0️⃣ Reacting Angrily or Throwing Clubs
Frustration happens in golf, but taking it out on your clubs or shouting makes the game less enjoyable. Throwing clubs or swearing creates tension and can damage equipment or the course. Tip: When a shot goes wrong, take a deep breath, reset, and focus on your next move. Golf is a mental game, and staying calm is part of mastering it.
2️⃣1️⃣ Ignoring Flagstick Courtesy Etiquette
Whether you remove the flagstick or leave it in, doing so carelessly can damage the hole or slow play. Tip: When you handle the flag, do so gently. If you lay it down, place it away from putting lines. After finishing, replace it straight and securely. These small actions help keep greens in top shape for everyone.
2️⃣2️⃣ Not Acknowledging or Shaking Hands Post-Round
Finishing a round without thanking or acknowledging your playing partners is considered poor etiquette. In the U.S., it’s customary to shake hands, fist bump, or say, “Thanks for the game.” It shows respect, whether you played well or struggled. Tip: Make this a habit; it leaves a positive impression, no matter your score.
2️⃣3️⃣ Disrespecting Maintenance Staff or Environment
Golf courses stay beautiful thanks to the hardworking staff. Ignoring their work, driving through restricted areas, or leaving litter behind shows poor etiquette. Tip: Greet maintenance staff when you see them, avoid driving or walking where they’re working, and always use bins for trash. A clean, well-kept course benefits everyone, starting with each player doing their part.
2️⃣4️⃣ Standing in Someone's Shadow
On sunny days, shadows can fall across a player’s putting Line, creating a distraction. Beginners often don’t realize how bothersome this can be. Tip: Be aware of where your body and shadow fall. Stand well out of sight and away from the Line of play. Little things like this show courtesy and help others stay focused.
2️⃣5️⃣ Failing to Follow Local Rules (e.g., Bells, Cart Paths)
Every U.S. course has unique local rules, like ringing bells on blind holes or cart-path-only requirements during wet conditions. Beginners often miss these details. Tip: Check the scorecard or ask the starter before your round. Following local rules keeps you safe and ensures fair play.
2️⃣6️⃣ Playing the Wrong Ball or Not Declaring Provisional
It’s frustrating (and penalized) when you hit the wrong ball or fail to declare a provisional. Tip: Always mark your ball clearly and announce any provisional shot out loud so your group knows. It prevents confusion, saves time, and protects your score.
2️⃣7️⃣ Ignoring Hazard/OB Rules (Stakes)
Red, yellow, and white stakes mark hazards and out-of-bounds areas. Not knowing their meaning can lead to unnecessary penalties or disputes. Tip: Learn each color’s meaning before playing, or keep a cheat sheet in your bag. Understanding stakes helps you make the right play and stay within the rules.
2️⃣8️⃣ Unnecessary Practice Swings Injuring Turf
Taking too many practice swings or carelessly chopping at the turf is wasteful and damages the course. Tip: Limit yourself to one or two purposeful practice swings. Focus on form, not force, and always avoid taking chunks from the grass.
2️⃣9️⃣ Using Dirty Clubs/Grips Affecting Others
Dirty clubs can leave mud on greens or transfer dirt to others’ gear. This is a small but common beginner slip. Tip: Wipe down your clubs after each shot and clean your grips regularly. It helps your game, too—clean clubs perform better!
3️⃣0️⃣ Talking During Others' Shots
Golf is a game of concentration. Talking during another player’s shot breaks focus and feels disrespectful. Tip: Stay quiet and still until they complete their swing or putt. There’s plenty of time to chat between shots or on the way to the next tee.
3️⃣1️⃣ Using Phone During Play, Delaying Pace
Checking your phone or texting during a round slows play and distracts from the game. Tip: Keep your phone silent and check it only during natural breaks, like between holes. This keeps you focused and your group moving.
3️⃣2️⃣ Casual Rounds with Sloppy Etiquette
Some beginners relax their etiquette during casual rounds, thinking it doesn’t matter. But habits form in these moments. Tip: Practice good manners every time you play so you won’t have to think about it when it counts.
3️⃣3️⃣ Ignoring Weather/Safety Signals (Lightning)
Lightning is a serious risk on the golf course. Ignoring sirens or warnings puts lives in danger. Tip: Stop playing and seek shelter immediately at the first sign of lightning or a weather siren. No shot is worth the risk. Many U.S. courses have clear protocols for storms — know them before you tee off. As one golf marshal said, “The fastest way to ruin a round is to ignore safety warnings.” Always put safety first, no matter how tempting it is to finish a hole.
FAQs
What is proper golf etiquette?
Proper golf etiquette means showing respect for fellow players, the course, and the game’s traditions. This includes keeping pace, staying quiet during others’ shots, repairing divots and ball marks, following local rules, and keeping the course clean. It also means being aware of safety—like not hitting until it’s clear. Practicing good etiquette helps make golf enjoyable for everyone, whether you’re playing casually or in competition.
What is bad etiquette in golf?
Bad etiquette in golf means behavior that disrespects other players, the course, or the game’s traditions. Examples include playing too slowly, talking during others’ shots, not repairing divots or pitch marks, and failing to let faster groups play through. Poor etiquette can frustrate fellow golfers and ruin the pace and enjoyment of a round. Good etiquette shows respect and helps everyone have a positive experience on the course.
What is the most common mistake in golf?
The most common mistake in golf is playing too slowly or not keeping up with the group ahead. Beginners often spend too much time preparing shots or searching for lost balls, which can frustrate other players. The best way to avoid this is to stay ready, limit search time, and follow “ready golf” principles to help keep the pace moving smoothly.
What are the 3 P’s in golf?
The 3 P’s in golf stand for Patience, Practice, and Persistence. These qualities are key to improving your game and enjoying the sport. Patience helps you stay calm during tough rounds, practice builds your skills over time, and persistence keeps you motivated even after bad shots or challenging holes. Many coaches say mastering the 3 P’s is just as important as mastering your swing or putting stroke!
How to stop making mistakes in golf?
The best way to stop making mistakes in golf is to focus on building good habits both in play and etiquette. Here’s how:
Learn basic rules and etiquette — understanding these avoids common penalties and frustrations.
Play with more experienced golfers — they can guide you during rounds.
Take your time on each shot — think through your plan, but keep pace steady.
Practice regularly — the more you play, the more confident you’ll become.
Review your mistakes after each round — and set small goals to improve.
Last Words to Say
Golf etiquette isn’t just about tradition; It’s about creating a respectful, enjoyable experience for everyone. Small actions add up to a great round, from arriving on time to keeping pace, from repairing divots to staying quiet during shots. As PGA coach Justin Johnson puts it:
“Etiquette makes the difference between a fun day and a frustrating one—for you and everyone else on the course.”
By avoiding these 33 common mistakes, you’ll improve your game and earn respect at any U.S. course you visit. Keep this guide handy, and consider creating a personal checklist before your next round. Happy golfing!